A list of Encopresis books (those that I currently have)

Hi everyone,

How is your weekend going? Below is a list of Encopresis books that I currently own (book copy), and will review in a future blog post including where they are available to buy. If there are other physical books on the subject available that you know of that aren’t on this list and am interested in a honest review, feel free to mention it in the comments section or e-mail me: naturegirl015admin@themagicwithinus.com

List of Encopresis books:

  • A Girl Like You: A story for older children who soil – British Edition (Author: James Parkin) (Publisher: Amazon Digital Services)
  • Stool Withholding: What To Do When Your Child Won’t Poop! (Author: Sophia J. Ferguson) (Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform)
  • The Ins and Outs of Poop: A Guide to Treating Childhood Constipation (Author: Thomas R. Duhamel, PhD) (Publisher: Maret Publishing)
  • Scared To Poop: A Guide To Overcoming Constipation And Stool Withholding In Children (Author: Kathleen M. Diehl) (Publisher: Gateway to Being)
  • Solving Children’s Soiling Problems: A Handbook For Health Professionals (Author: Jackie Bracey) (Publisher: Churchill Livingstone)
  • Constipation, Withholding and Your Child: A Family Guide to Soiling and Wetting (Author: Anthony Cohn) (Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers)
  • Elimination Disorders in Children and Adolescents: Advances in Psychotherapy, Evidence-Based Practice (Authors: Edward R. Christophersen & Patrick C. Friman) (Publisher: Hogrefe Publishing)
  • Clouds and Clocks: A Story For Children Who Soil, Second Edition (Author: Matthew Galvin, M.D.) (Publisher: Magination Press)
  • It Hurts When I Poop!: A Story for Children Who Are Scared to Use the Potty (Author: Howard J. Bennett, M.D.) (Publisher: Magination Press)
  • Bladder and Bowel Issues for Kinds: A Handy Guide for Kids Ages 4-12 (Author: Janet  A. Hulme M.A., P.T.) (Publisher:Phoenix Publishing; 1 edition (June 2003)
  • I Can’t. I Won’t. No Way!: A Book for Children Who Refuse to Poop (Author: Tracey J. Vessillo) (Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform (October 31, 2011)
  • The Un-Constipated Gourmet: Secrets to a Moveable Feast. 125 Recipes for the Regularity Challenged (Author: Denielle Svetcov) (Publisher: Sourcebooks, Inc.)
  • Poop: A Natural History of The Unmentionable (Author: Nicola Davies) (Publisher: Candlewick Press)
  • Softy the Poop: Helping Families Talk About Poop (Author: Thomas R. DuHamel, PhD) (Publisher: Maret Publishing)

What do you think of the list so far? What are you most interested in reading a review of? What are your favourites? Are there any others that need to be included?

I hope this list helps. Don’t forget to keep an eye out for my book. Enjoy the rest of the weekend and have the most amazing week ahead. Take care,

Dimity

Blog expansion and future opportunities

Hey everyone (also a huge welcome and Thank You to my new subscribers),

How are you all going? I have been busy lately with circus show (both rehearsals and performance), work and collaborating on a future project with someone. What have you been up to?

In the coming months I will be expanding and improving my blog. Very exciting but you’ll have to subscribe and see!

Stay strong, positive and keep smiling.

Dimity

The Skid Mark (with Encopresis)

 

Hey everyone,

How are you all going? Thank you for your e-mails & messages, and please keep them coming. Today this blog post is about Skid mark (with Encopresis). See diagram below.

The ENCOPRESIS SKID MARK diagram

 

A Skid mark is a very thin faecal line down the underwear and it can range from having a slightly soft texture to hard small faecal bits stuck to the underwear. Keep in mind that the skid marks also can appear when bottom hasn’t been cleaned properly, leaving a residue in the underwear. In my personal experience the smell is less noticeable as the stool isn’t as old in the body compared to normal Encopresis impaction.

As my Encopresis journey was nearing it’s ending, I noticed that the soiling changed from a heavy soiling to the skid mark. As the amount of soiling decreased, the skid marks were more noticeable. It can still leave a stain, and be aware of small pieces of stool deposits stuck to the underwear. The way I view it, and in my personal opinion & experience with Encopresis, if you see the skid mark the end is in sight. This isn’t a guarantee, just an observation. Always be vigilant, never let Encopresis determine WHO you are! There is light at the end of the tunnel.

Tell me: Have you seen any of the types of skid mark mentioned above or different?

Feel free to share your thoughts on this topic.

Take care everyone,

Dimity

P.S. “With an open mind, and an open heart…anything is possible!”

Happy New Year 2015

Hey everyone,

How are you all? Happy New Year 2015!! I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas. Thank you for sharing your stories, emotions and questions last year. I look forward to reading them and hearing from you this year. What are your New Year’s Resolutions? Do you believe in them? I have a few projects and potential projects planned for this year, and will share them with you when the opportunity arises.

I apologise for this to be a short entry. Take care, enjoy 2015 and all the experiences & opportunities it will bring to you, your community and your family. Don’t forget to subscribe to my blog, e-mail me: naturegirl015admin@themagicwithinus.com and the Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/helpencopresissurvivorseeellen

Encopresis survivor communication

Hi to all my readers out there,

How are you all doing? How is your weekend? Thank you for the e-mails, comments and posts and sharing your family story and experiences. I really appreciate it, respond and am here for you. As an Encopresis survivor myself, I know what it feels like to feel so alone with no one to talk to whom has gone thought it and open to talk to. Someone existing and real, someone that soils underwear with no idea why, someone that I can relate to. I’m here for you all.

I am available, open and interested in talking to your child/teenager/adult. Whether it’s on the phone, e-mail, writing a letter and creating a video message on YouTube. It doesn’t matter whether your child is 4, or in his/her 60’s. If receiving a personal letter from Santa Claus at Christmas time brightens up your child’s life, I know what it would be like to receive letters though out the year from a fellow Encopresis survivor.

I will give my postal address/phone number for the families that request it. The best ways to contact me are posting on my blog directly,

e-mail: naturegirl015admin@themagicwithinus.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/helpencopresissurvivorseeellen

Twitter: @naturegirl015

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/naturegirl015

Enjoy the weekend everyone. Stay strong, be yourself and never give up.

Dimity

Encopresis and beyond (4 Questions asked)

Hey everyone,

How are you all doing? I wish to give a huge warm welcome to all my new subscribers (and Thank You).

I was asked recently via e-mail from a parent, about my experiences with Encopresis with a different angle. Below are the questions, and after that will be my responses to them. I hope it helps you all, for those that need it, and feel free to post your thoughts to them or e-mail me: naturegirl015admin@themagicwithinus.com

1. At what age did your parents decide to let you take responsibility for managing your Encopresis on your own?

As a young child and more importantly as a teenager, I was given a plastic bag with a spare change of underwear (and can use the bag to put the soiled underwear in until home). However one spare change isn’t enough when that gets soiled literally as soon as it’s on (smell always lingered). After being constantly bullied when at the school bathrooms, I wouldn’t go in them during school hours unless absolutely necessary (ask your son/daughter about this), and never felt comfortable in there. My stools are very large (thanks to having Encopresis), that they have been known to block the toilet. Blocking the toilet in a public place is very embarrassing and highly increases low self esteem and very self conscious to the point of avoiding it. As a teenager (13 years old), I was old to put my dirty underwear in a bucket of Napisan (stain remover, in the laundry) to soak, which I would do. However when the underwear had the skid-mark type hard stools (and worse), then was yelled at and made to scrub it. This constantly made me cry my heart out to empty ears and very angry & disappointed with myself (as was everyone else). Admittedly and ashamedly this also led me to throw my underwear in the bin in secret to avoid the pain of going through it all, and survive and be a “normal” person. I was later found out (obviously had less underwear in the laundry), but it didn’t stop Encopresis or the emotional pain. Having the spare underwear handy is good and discreet at the time (not so discreet when people can smell it, except me). I wasn’t ever officially diagnosed nor had any X-rays/scans that are available now. I was also given a daily stool softener, Paraffin Oil (before dinner, and water after). It tasted yummy and makes me happy to think about it (it did from time to time give me Diarrhea or leave a oily residue). Did it make a difference? Honestly and in my personal experience, I definitely say YES! My bedroom was extended at age 15, when we did home renovations, and I was given my personal ensuite (and TV in my room), this also made all the difference…and the year I noticed my Encopresis had stopped.

2. Were you able to stop withholding cold turkey or did you still withhold and have the occasional accidents?

See above about personal ensuite/TV installed. I wouldn’t say that I “stopped withholding cold turkey” because I didn’t know that this was happening. No one, not even my parents, mentioned my clean underwear for a significant period of time. No one noticed, not even me. It was an advert on TV or a story or something I heard that when I thought about it was like, “Oh I stopped soiling…cool”, and then continued living.

3. Did you have an epiphany moment when you decided to change? What was that moment and what triggered it?

As mentioned previously.

4. Do you consider yourself to be completely free of Encopresis or do you, as an adult, still catch yourself withholding and take appropriate actions to avoid getting backed up?

Yes I do consider myself Encopresis-free..I’ve referred to myself as an “Encopresis Survivor”, and proud of it to admit it. If you or someone you know is Encopresis-free, then you’re an Encopresis survivor too. Keep in mind I will never say that I am in remission, of Enco (might explain this in another post). Admittedly I can’t pee/poop “on demand”, and this also means that I have difficulties to go successfully (go and not “get the urge but can’t physically go Now”) on the toilet on long haul flights. Sometimes I will get the pain in my abdomen for a few days (after long travel), but this eventually disappears after appropriate action has been initiated. I do continue to have large stools, although go more regularly (doesn’t have to be daily…it’s normal for me to NOT do a “number 2” daily). I prefer to poop at home/hotel.

Thank you for reading my blog. Please let me know in your comments below if you found it useful, any tips for others and what your thoughts are on this.

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Have a wonderful day, keep smiling and stay strong.

Dimity

Feed The Little Children

Hi Everyone,

How are you all? I’m going well here, getting busy with different projects. Recently I’ve been volunteering at a local non-for-profit charity called “Feed the Little Children”. It is a volunteer run local charity where we cook nutritious meals and deliver them to the local children whom would go to bed hungry otherwise.

I absolutely love it, and seeing all their smiling faces. The parents that I talk to are also very appreciative and welcoming. I go out and help out with the deliveries of the meals (there are other volunteers that cook the meals). At the moment we’re delivering over 300 meals in a night. At the moment it’s only run on the weekend (Friday and Saturday), but ideally FEED THE LITTLE CHILDREN want to run all year round. A lot of the houses are in badly lit areas and it can get really dark at night. Helping to feed the children and help those in need in my community is a wonderful opportunity, and feels truly humbling and amazing inside. For those that are interested in more information, here is the link to their website: http://feedthelittlechildren.org.au

Tomorrow I’ll be feeding the children. Definitely something I love to do on the weekend. Have a wonderful weekend everyone. Stay strong. Do YOU have anything planned for the weekend?

Always be kind to one another. With an open mind, and an open heart…anything is possible.

Dimity